Tuesday, March 2, 2010

EFFECT OF EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR


Extramarital affairs in marriages cause bitterness that are difficult to be forgiven.



DAMAGE SELF ESTEEM
Extramarital affairs injure married couples' self-esteem. One of them might ask themself, "Am I not adequate enough to fulfil his or her desire?".


DISTRUST
Extramarital affairs damage the trust between married couples. Lack of trust affects marriages.


SENSE OF INSTABILITY
Extramarital affairs shatter the sense of stability in marriages. Married couples would feel very insecure. They tend to be more protective, selfish and cold towards each other.


ROLLER-COASTER OF EMOTIONS
Extramarital affairs affects the emotion of married couples. The loss of trust and insecurity is bound to rock the marriage again and again. The bitter experience would be brought up everytime an argument occurs.


THE RIPPLE EFFECTS
Extra marital affairs can cause a ripple effects to married couples. The bitter experience would haunt them from time to time.


REMEDIES
There are a few tips to be considered to save a marriage after an extramarital affair.
1. Discuss the matter with your spouse
2. Bring in support groups such as friends and family members.
3. Seek professional advice from clergymen and counselors.



http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/infidelity/a/inf_effects.htm

PREPARED BY JC PUA




2 comments:

Zulkifli said...

Extramarital affairs in marriages cause bitterness that are difficult to be forgiven.

1. DAMAGE SELF ESTEEM

Extramarital affairs injure married couples' self-esteem. One of them might ask themself, "Am I not adequate enough to fulfil his or her desire?".

2. DISTRUST

Extramarital affairs damage the trust between married couples. Lack of trust affects marriages.

3. SENSE OF INSTABILITY

Extramarital affairs shatter the sense of stability in marriages. Married couples would feel very insecure. They tend to be more protective, selfish and cold towards each other.

4. ROLLER-COASTER OF EMOTIONS

Extramarital affairs affects the emotion of married couples. The loss of trust and insecurity is bound to rock the marriage again and again. The bitter experience would be brought up everytime an argument occurs.

5. THE RIPPLE EFFECTS

Extra marital affairs can cause a ripple effects to married couples. The bitter experience would haunt them from time to time.

REMEDIES

There are a few tips to be considered to save a marriage after an extramarital affair.
1. Discuss the matter with your spouse
2. Bring in support groups such as friends and family members.
3. Seek professional advice from clergymen and counselors.

Mas Ayu said...

good luck in your final exam...do the best.('_')