Many couples always think, how do I know that my spouse having an affair outside of the marriage? Did any signs show us that they are having an affair? How do we begin looking for different signs of cheating? What is innocent behavior and what is really a sign that something is going on? From many books and internet articles, we are not difficult to find out the above questions for answers, but at here, I am not trying to give any answers from the books or articles from the internet, I am now trying to give the answers according many real experiences from my clients. Their real experiences can really help us to analyse if our spouse having an affair outside, there are some signs can help us to decipher what to look for if we think our spouse if having an affair.
Signs of Cheating Man: 1. The sex frequency has changed! A cheating spouse may show lack of interest in sex because he is too tired, stressed and overworked. On the contrary, your partner may also shows more interest in sex, new positions, love techniques and asks your opinion about how he does, because he needs to try this all to his affair.
2. He needs times to company his affair, so he is started away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously. He always said he had overtimes, come back late.
3. He has unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back. His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume, maybe having lipstick on his shirt. Normally, having scratches or lipstick on his neck or shirt is a planning action from the affair want to let the spouse know about their relationship.
4. He always walk away from you to answer a call. He uses a low voice on the phone or hangs up quickly when you are near by him.
5. He started will having some actions like begins to delete some incoming phone calls from the caller ID, spends an excessive amount of time on the computer or phone, especially after you have gone to bed.
6. Extramarital affairs usually involve gifts, he normally will buy gift or bring his affair for holidays, check of unaccounted expenses by going through the credit card or bank statements. Pay attention to dates close to holidays and Valentines Day.
Signs of Cheating Woman:
1. She fairly suddenly stops having sex with you, or the
sex drops off! A woman will almost feel it's no good to have sex with husband while she has an affair outside, because a woman always hope she only have sexual bond with the one she's love more, she's hopes to keep herself only unto her affair.
2. Her physical appearance and style has changed. She started like to dress up herself beautifully, spending a lot of moneys and times to change herself become more beauty.
3. She is started to buy a lot of new underwear and underclothes for herself.
4. She started likes
staying alone, rejecting children come to disturb her. She seems less comfortable around her spouse and is "touchy", easily moved to anger.5. At home, she always said nothing but sat there staring blankly and suddenly smiling alone by herself without any reasons.
6. She get calls where she hangs up when she hears her spouse's voice, or she get calls but she didn't pick up her calls when her spouse was with her.
7. She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
(Prepared by: Ng)
4 comments:
The thought that one's spouse could be involved in extramarital affair
might cross the mind of many married women
at one time or another.
Are there any signs that could help married women to detect or to test their spouses fidelity or infidelity?
In this blog, I would like to share some of the experiences gathered from my clients
when I was work as a marriage counselor.
Some signs of a cheating husband are listed below:
The thought that one's spouse could be involved in extramarital affair might cross the mind of many married women at one time or another. Are there any signs that could help married women to detect or to test their spouses fidelity or infidelity? In this blog, I would like to share some of the experiences gathered from my clients when I was working as a marriage counselor. Some signs of a cheating husband are listed below:
There are a few tips to detect extramarital affairs i marriages.
A. Signs of Cheating Husbands:
1. The sex frequency has changed! A cheating spouse may show lack of interest in sex because he is too tired, stressed and overworked.
Sometimes, he might show more interest in new sex positions and love techniques
He might also asks your opinion about how his sexual performance because he wants to try it on his lover.
2. He needs times to be with his lover. Therefore, he will give excuses to be away from home under the pretext of doing overtime or having outstation meetings.
3. He has unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back. His clothes could have a smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
4. He always ignore your calls, uses low voice when answering your calls or hanging up telephones abruptly when you approach him.
5. He deletes incoming phone calls, spends excessive amount of time on the computer or phone or making calls when you are in the bedroom.
6. He buys gifts for his lover, takes his lover on holidays, having unaccounted expenses on his credit card or bank statements, or pays attention to dates close to holidays and Valentines Day.
Signs of Cheating Wives:
1. She refrains from having sex with her husband because reserves herself only for her lover.
2. Her physical appearance and style has changed. She started like to dress up and spending a lot of time and money to beautify herself.
3. She starts buying a lot of new underwears and underclothes for herself.
4. She ignores her children and husband, becomes less comfortable around her spouse and is easily agitated.
5. At home, she talks less, stares blankly and at time smiles alone by herself without any comprehensible reasons.
6. She hangs up calls when her husband is around.
7. She speaks in low voice or whispers on the phone.
what solutions to couples to case as such???
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